Facilitator Guide 3: Principles of Support
Use the Principles of Support When:
- Someone in the group is negative or hopeless about an issue over which he or she has little or no control
- Someone’s personal issue can be connected to a universal goal that we are all striving for
Why the Principles of Support Are Important:
- To connect us to our highest aspirations in dealing with mental illness
- To get everyone talking about their reflections on these Principles
If the group begins talking about stigma, guilt, difficulties in coping, treatment resistance, shift the group to Principles of Support.
Steps
- Use a strategy to direct the person to the Principles of Support Chart on the wall.
Direct: “Let’s take a look at the Principles of Support and find something we can strive for when things get tough.”
Support: “A lot of us struggle with that particular issue.”
- Ask the person what Principle might apply to his/her situation.
“What Principle might guide you in this situation?”
- Ask the group members what applied to or helped them when they were in a similar situation.
“What applied to or helped you in a similar situation?”
- Get a group discussion going about the Principles.
“Why don’t we discuss this for a minute?”
If the group starts naming the Principles and not discussing them, ask, “How do we do that?” about one of the Principles mentioned. Remember to get a discussion going.
Cardinal Rules
- Never choose a Principle for someone else
- Never lecture or instruct the group about Principles
- Call on the quiet person (the only time you can); everyone has something to say about these Principles
- Do not circle back and summarize the discussion